I had the pleasure of meeting the first female RAAF pilot (in a LONG time) to complete the Introductory Fighter Course on the Hawk - just recently finished and moving on to an F18 course (which one is still to be determined) shortly. An awesome individual with a bright future ahead.
Her biggest issue - longing to be left alone by the establishment to just "get on with the job" of being a pilot.
I wish her all the best and would encourage the RAAF to allow her to concentrate on the task at hand - it's not a big deal for HER that she's a female.