Some guys seem to have loss the will to survive. It's like my wife; I issue an order camouflaged as a suggestion; she thinks about it and tries to find a reason not to agree or come up with an absurd alternative. This takes quite a few moments, and my response is pointing out her counter suggestion is not practical. After a few ping-pong comments we agree, finally, that my original idea will work as the best option and off we go.
Now have this discussion with a closing speed of 16km's per minute. There comes a time for someone to make a decision PDQ. If you want to think about it afterwards, feel free. At least you will have the luxury. If you don't...............then you won't.