Ye gods - some real stereotyping and prejudice going on here!
Maybe people need to accept that are positives and negatives to both ex-military and purely civilian pilots. In my short time in the commercial world I've already seen amazing self-improvers and shoddy ex-military and vice versa.
Seems like the OP is pretty bitter about something and some have risen to an obvious stirring of the pot!
Can't we all just get along?