FFS - sounds like denial of what happened and a wish to pretend it was trivial.
But it didn't happen a few seconds earlier, did it? And an able bodied person would have changed hands quickly to re-establish full control
I'm of the view that the learning gained from this incident for such a low cost is a positive thing, but just because you know the pilot and would put your family on this aircraft does not mean others are to be attacked for expressing an opinion.