Wiley, I fully understand the implications of Spad's question and embelishing the alleged character of either side will not change the answer, nor will it make a person on either side less lilely to assist the percieved "enemy" in a time of major trauma for them.
You dressed it up nicely, Wiley is indeed a good pseudonym, but the answer stands. I would not hesitate to call either becuse I fail to percieve that either group was wrong in following their personal convictions.
Hello??
Are you really there??
You are reminding me of several clients I have. They think that asking the same question a different way over and over will eventually get them the answer they want. Sadly - for them at least - it will not.
Likewise with your query. My statement stands.
bonvol - damned shame, as you are all very vunerable, which is a fallout situation of '89 and perhaps what management wanted.
It may be time to address that little problem before it bites.
Best regards
EWL