Well, no seat is bolt upright. Yes I'd be happier with seats that didn't recline, but with wings in the headrest giving me somewhere to park my head. Give me 'my' space, not a movable space where my only option when someone inconveniences me is to inconvenience the person behind me.
I hate having no control over the person in front, hoping that s/he is considerate to my needs during meal times etc, and these days knowing it's not about me it's about them.