Careful VR - you may not be helping with pay negotiations making those kind of statements! - You're selling yourself cheap!
I reckon Flt Lt level 9 + Enhanced rate = £62k , plus the pension package and allowances on top. (The total of which I haven't the time to add up, but is a good few bob).
If pjn is to be believed, SFO is 55k + (at a guess) 120 days of (on average) 3 sectors = £61k minus pension minus HTD - etc,etc.
Thus if eJ are picking up on this they are expecting Mil guys to step into the RHS on a pay-cut; a couple of steps up the eJ pay increments may make it an easier decision to work there over any other potential offer!!
(oh and not having to do AirFP!)
FWIW - I think there's more to it than the money (as it gets a bit like lies, damn lies and statistics), but hopefully a life in Orange could be a bit more enjoyable and provide a bit more work/life balance than where I am now!
Fingers crossed and good luck to all!