I asked nicely and the No1 asked the Capt. I have 3 kids (1 an infant at the time) and I was just with my wife. I had all of their stuff too; the stress was avoidable and permanent. There was meant to be a pre-board families policy at the time, but not in Granada, I was informed at the gate when the stampede began, so, I was screwed over. Crew STBY's aren't worth the risk at this time of year either, so I am happy to travel where I know the service is good and to be honest, a better price by £400.
I don't have time to argue and can't stand people who do, nor do I give 2nd chances if I have been a victim of very bad practice.
I know all about M&B flying the 757, but would never dismiss a passenger like I was, for a a few kgs in the next row.
Anyway - back the the thread.......where were we......bad T's & C's, pilots leaving, too many Cadets, no chances for experienced TP pilots.......