Having been through a somewhat similar experience myself I wish to extend my sympathies to student pilots affected by this situation. I know that it can have a great impact on your lives and feel quite brutal and despairing to begin with, but I'm sure that you will eventually recover.
It might not match the experience which some aspects of military flying offer, but I think that civilian aviation can be worthwhile for those who are interested.
Best of luck to you while working towards better days.