Mmmayday38
First of from an SLF thank you!
Secondly as I browse various scenarios and analogies of what is being said in various posts I would as a non technical person (humble SLF in awe)... ask this question.
Given your real life unique experience from which all walked away and god forbid it were to play out exactly the same, some day again in the future is there anything you would do different (as learned from this experience) which would have resulted in the outcome being even better than it already was?