I think if you can go somewhere and try them on that's the best way to see what you like. As daft as it may sound, different people have different shapes and sizes of ears and head to others. What might fit someone well and suits them may not be the correct fit for you.
I use the sennheiser HME 100 and I like them, although I didn't have the pennies to consider the bose or those in the same price range.
Have fun flying