Yes, on day one I was able to spot the fake sincerity towards me as an individual human being. If you or anyone else were unable to recognise on day one that they merely look at you as a number/consumable, then I can not help you. However, from the bottom of my heart I will tell you that with this attitude, many disappointments still lie ahead!
Forget about the grandfather comment, I knew you would not get it.....my mistake.