Airbubba,
Human actions, statements, are influenced by their point of view.
Thus perhaps with a more worldly view, your comments, seen by some to be offensive or misjudged, could be reconsidered to reflect cultures other than yours - US ?
This issue also relates to other posts in this thread which are blinked by a single point of view, personal experiences, 'home' culture - national, organisational, or professional.
Accidents can be generalised as involving the situation and context.
Situation - factual; evidence of the situation at the time the event occurred. This cannot be easily judged by others without the facts from recordings nor specialist interpretation.
Context - subjective; beliefs, motivations, perceptions and values of the individuals involved. Any judgement of these will be subjective, according to viewpoint, and cannot be stated with any certainty.
More fruitful discussion might start with what is not known, opposed to what is attributed to 'fact'.