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Retirement.....what next?

Old 9th Apr 2015, 18:48
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Originally Posted by Gentabler
One important consideration for the recently retired couple is to allow each other their own space. My significant other has her own snug to which she can retire, eat chocolate and watch some of her medical programmes on TV while I watch manly adventure things downstairs.
Good call on that one! We both have our own 'work room', and batter our iDevices in isolation [occasionally posting links to each other by email ] ... and we sit side-by-side at the big iDevice when there are matters of joint concern, like holiday planning.

In each other's face all the time demands a very high level of compatibility!

(Incidentally, I think that may have been the first post that mentioned the OH's perspective on proceedings.
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Old 9th Apr 2015, 18:59
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Keeping occupied is no problem. The problem is Mrs Wader envisages the end result but pays no attention to how the project may be achieved. Then, when work is in progress she will either change her mind or load the next job.


After building a number of decorative walls around raised flower beds came the utility room enlargement project. Before that was complete came the new garage door, a new front door, a new door in place of one of the garage doors, then lining a 'blind wall' with insulation, and presently dry walling her conservatory.


Note it is HER garden, HER utility room, HER front door, HER conservatory.


Now if you were single or newly divorced THEN you would have a problem.


For pin money I have a regular job as a Poll Clerk, steady work, once every couple of years and also as an exam invigilator. You would be surprised how many organisations need invigilators.
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Old 9th Apr 2015, 19:55
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In response to some of the later posts.

I have a few big projects on the go - stuff I want to do. The lovely Mrs C has thousands of her own. Therefore we are never bored. Quite often, Mrs C wants stuff done on her projects right now. No problem, we'll do that stuff today. It's not a problem. Our time is our own.
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Old 9th Apr 2015, 21:00
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- retiring @ 50 cannot be good for anyone - mentally, that is. You are far far too young to do sweet FA @ 50.

Thomas Coupling! Those two statements are not linked in any way! I retired at 51 and have never felt so mentally stimulated since I was at Uni. I won't go into detail about how I spend my day but rest assured that from the moment I get up (at a time of my choosing) to moment I turn out the light my brain is active and happily engaged on a variety of tasks. I simply stopped paid employment at 51 and no longer had to deal with the brain-dead mental pygmies who seemed determined to thwart best practice in my chosen profession. Believe me, working is not the secret to mental wellbeing!!!
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Old 9th Apr 2015, 22:05
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retiring @ 50 cannot be good for anyone
absolutely, totally agree...

I retired at 47 and that was way too late.
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Old 9th Apr 2015, 22:14
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Our time is our own.
That's it in a nutshell.. No more reports to write with the deadline looming, no more meetings in MB, no more niff naff - our time is ours to fill as we wish.
How many times have I heard a retiree say - "How on earth did I find the time to work..?" - I've said it myself.
The one thing I found difficult to calculate before we moved here was working out if we'd have enough income to live here in the way we want to live. In the end I needn't have worried.
This week saw us out on our terrace for the first time this year having an apéro in the evening sunshine.. can't put a price on that..
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Old 9th Apr 2015, 22:19
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Mopardrive - retiring @ 50 cannot be good for anyone - mentally, that is. You are far far too young to do sweet FA @ 50
hmmmmm...........I don't remember saying I was going to do "sweet FA"..........Mrs MD wouldn't let me get away with that......but thanks for the input TC.
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Old 10th Apr 2015, 02:44
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I'd always planned to retire at 57 - it seemed like a good age, and circumstances conspired to make it very convenient. However, I looked on it as starting a new career, and found it helpful to maintain a regular routine - being in the workshop by 0830, an hour for lunch and knock off at 1700. The difference is, if something else is more attractive, I'll do it. I guess I work at enjoying my retirement.
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Old 10th Apr 2015, 04:04
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I have about 18 months to go to retirement. Five years ago, I started thinking about it, but couldn't imagine what it would be like; now, I can't really wait.
I have been told that, if you are in a relationship, it will tend to become "bigger" - fortunately Mrsr1 & I are very good friends.
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Old 10th Apr 2015, 09:01
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A very cheeky Mrs TM hung up a sign depicting:

Retirement
Twice as much husband
Half as much income

Which thankfully, is technically incorrect. ..... and besides which, she is at work and I am enjoying the sunshine

Oh look at the time. Tea & toast at ten! The only thing about the Army that ever impressed me.
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Old 10th Apr 2015, 09:14
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"For better, or for worse", but not necessarily for lunch every day!
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Old 10th Apr 2015, 09:51
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This is one of the more interesting threads I've come across on here for a while. My job ended last week due to health reasons so I find myself in a semi-retired state in my late 50's. It's so new that I can't bring myself to call my status "retired" yet.

Mrs P6 retired about five years ago so she has developed a good routine while I've been at work Mon-Fri, so now I'm developing my own, around hers so that we have our own space and don't tread on each others turf.

I've had three months off work before it ended so I've had time to think things through and mentally plan ahead. Finance is the main thing that came to mind and once I'd worked out how that would come together, the rest seems quite easy.

Watching TV and being hooked on the Jeremy Kyle Show is not an option to consider, but as an alternative, I suspect that we're about to have the tidiest garden on the planet and some of those jobs around the house that I've been putting off will finally be sorted. It just seems strange right now that I have so much time to make decisions about.

Whether I look into part-time work in the future depends on whether I get bored I suppose but for now, life seems to have a bright future for me.
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Old 10th Apr 2015, 10:06
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I left HM Forces over 20 years ago and am now approaching the last few years of my commercial flying career.

I enjoyed my time in Auntie Betty's Flying Club immensely but am very glad I left when I did. Similarly, I have enjoyed working for 4 very different airlines around the world for the last 20+ years.

I got married quite late and my wife is not from UK so we shall be settling down on our little piece of SE Asian real estate in a few years time with nice views over the Andaman Sea and all day to do pretty much whatever we want to do - together or independently.

The point I would make is that, financially, it makes sense for me to struggle on past 60 to get a much bigger retirement pot with less time to spend it and therefore a much greater annual 'income' but our currency is not the $, it is time together. And provided we can pay our bills with a little left over each month we will be extremely happy.

I am looking at permanent retirement in a couple of years at age 55.
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Old 10th Apr 2015, 10:22
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By accident I got sidetracked into genealogy trying to find out something for my brother. I can recommend it to anyone, its really good fun tracing your family and some of the discoveries are eye opening. Both "ancestry" and "findmypast" occasionally run free access periods which will allow you to try out the system before committing to a subscription. Guaranteed to keep you busy.
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Old 10th Apr 2015, 11:31
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Returement

Agree totally with all the positive stuff here. The great thing is that time is one's own to make the best of. Just back from a full month away in Vietnam and Oz (partner's son lives in Hunter Valley ) utterly amazing trip - couldn't have done that a while ago!
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Old 10th Apr 2015, 11:38
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I am about to retire and have made a list of jobs that I need to do, Mrs BS has also helpfully made a list for me but unfortunately there are no jobs that appear on both lists!
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Old 10th Apr 2015, 11:55
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"For better, or for worse", but not necessarily for lunch every day!
Got that from Milady Teeters once.

We were living in a fairly spacious quarter but me in a busy job so didn't get back between (early) breakfast and (late) supper. Well - not normally.

Had a couple of appointments cancelled one day, so went home to sneak into kitchen to make a sarnie. Surprised by Milady:

MT: What are you doing here?

Moi: I live here! I'm making a sarnie for lunch!

roll of drums .....

MT: I married you for better and for worse - but NOT for lunch!!
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Old 10th Apr 2015, 17:11
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Tengah Type (#72),

Regarding your personal hopes to equal your Great Grandfather's 46 years' Pension: I've clocked up 43 and going strong ! (Must have had far more in pension - in cash terms - than ever I drew pay in 23 years "peace[?]time" RAF service). No increment for the 5 years in war, of course (the idea was that you were just doing your patriotic duty - doesn't count for pension).

Cheers, Danny.

PS: mopardave - we meet again ! Congratulations on starting this magnificent Thread ! D.
 
Old 10th Apr 2015, 19:13
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Money

In the not to distant past, before the Resettlement system change, Lloyds, Cox a d Kings, ran a financial seminar. It was led by a chap Alan Green something and he had plenty of pearls.

Once you had bought the missus a conservatory . . .

Did you need two cars . . . Maybe a new job came with a car

Mess bill . . .

Running a car to work . . .

Paying less tax . . .

By the time he had gone through the list it was a considerable saving and he has proven pretty accurate. Your money does go further and stretch to cruises at times to suit you.
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Old 10th Apr 2015, 21:04
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......and let's not forget, you just don't know what's around the corner! Out for a walk with the lovely Mrs MD the other night.......nothing unusual in that. I was left rocked and reeling when I bumped into someone I hadn't seen to speak to for 18 months or so. A very fit, former local business man.......possibly 60 years old, but no more than that. Within moments of striking up a conversation with him, I had the sickening realisation that all was not well. It didn't take a doctor to tell me this guy was in the early stages of Alzheimers.......subsequently confirmed to me by someone in the know.

Yup, life's a bloody lottery! One life......maybe it's time to live it!!

Sorry gents.....slight (heavy) thread drift there!
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