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Funeral Help Wanted - Death of an RAF Veteran with no Family or Friends

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Old 13th Feb 2014, 05:45
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Funeral Help Wanted - Death of an RAF Veteran with no Family or Friends

As this is perhaps the more appropriate place, I'm cross-posting from ARRSE this inquiry/request from Solihull Council.

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Hi everyone,

I work in Environmental Health for Solihull Council and I'm after some help please. A 76 year old man has recently died in Solihull and despite making enquiries we've not been able to find any relatives or friends. No arrangements have yet been made for his funeral.

From searching his home we believe he served a full career in the RAF in an engineering role, and appeared to be very proud of his service. We know little more than that.

Under the Public Health (Control of Disease) Act 1984 the Council is now responsible for organising his funeral, what is sometimes known as a paupers funeral.

We've contacted a number of organisations for help, including SPVA and RAFA. They've been less than helpful. It would be very sad if he is allowed to pass with a funeral that nobody attends and without any recognition of his service.

I'm aware that some associations will provide support such as standards, pallbearers, and even attendance by a serving unit, but so far we've had no luck.

Are any of you able to offer any advice or contacts?


Many thanks,


James
Link back to James' thread on ARRSE:Click here
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James,

The local branch of the Royal British Legion would assist I'm sure. Give them a call.

Good effort regardless - also, what was his name? Personal details on this forum may well be good thing

TN.

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James,

Congratulations on trying to arrange this. It pains me to say it but Facebook is a great way to spread the word about this sort of thing.

You may want to consider posting a phone number or email address you can be contacted on too.
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Only two replies..............Really???????????????????
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Only two replies..............Really???????????????????
I expect a lot of people have read the ARRSE thread and may be waiting for more info. At the moment there's not a lot to say except to thank James for his humanity and Rakshasa for bringing it to our attention.
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Give it time young Padawan, posted on other forums now and hopefully spreading, hopefully he will receive a send off he deserves, hats off to the Council for trying to make a difference to the guys funeral, they are going the extra mile and it shows how the attitude to servicemen past and present is gradually changing in this country of ours.
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Things appear to be in hand,

Funeral Help Wanted - Death of an RAF Veteran with no Family or Friends
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For those with an allergy to pongo websites, a small update:

Rak

Hi everyone.

Again, thank you all for your help. It's fantastic that some of you have offered to attend his funeral.

We have the contact details for an RAF Chaplain that has very kindly offered to conduct the funeral. We've also got contacts looking at others ways of marking his RAF service, including Solihull SSAFA.

We plan on adding his details to this thread on Tuesday, and then the funeral details once it's arranged.

Thanks again!


James
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Are there any legal or data protection constraints on releasing his name, rank and number etc ? Assuming that minimum detail is known to the Council.

The wealth of Pprune expertise, well versed in the art of uncovering all sorts of detail from the smallest clue, would doubtless give "Anonymous RAF Veteran" some useful personality. At age 76 that should include surviving old mates.

Nothing in the Solihull Observer or other eminent publications yet, as far as I can see. I will ask again in the other place. LFH
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No is the simple answer to the above. Data Protection legislation applies to those who are still alive as far as I am aware.
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its now being covered on Veterans Honoured on Facebook. he will get a send off.
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The wealth of PPRuNe expertise, well versed in the art of uncovering all
sorts of detail from the smallest clue, would doubtless give "Anonymous RAF
Veteran" some useful personality. At age 76 that should include surviving old mates.
My bold, very true, we have many here of that age or thereabouts so a name and a bit of history would be welcome.
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Does anyone know what his name is, please ?

I asked here and in the "other" place. I pm'd James, the originator. I emailed the Solihull Observer after they reported it yesterday, suggesting there wasn't much chance of finding friends or rellies without a name.

All I can see is the remark -
We plan on adding his details to this thread on Tuesday,
And the RAFA have offered their number in the "other place."
The Royal Air Forces Association area office is dealing with this case and has already made contact with Solihull Council to ensure the RAF Association provides as much support as it can. If anyone has any queries regarding this, please call the area office on 01392 462088 and ask to speak to the Area Director. Thank you
Absolute silence and not even a hint of explanation. Most peculiar and puzzling. LFH
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Suggest there is a substantial will left.............24 hours later and long lost family will appear.

Cynical ...................Moi ?
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former RAF Technician Barry Morgan NEAL

Details just released in the other place -

Here is an update on the funeral from the RAF Association
https://www.rafa.org.uk/What-we-do/...nts-proper-send-off-for-former-RAF-Technician

The funeral will take place at 15:30 on 28 February 2014 at Robin Hood Crematorium in Shirley.

The RAF Association will be represented by members of the Solihull Branch, with a standard bearer and coffin drape.
and
"former RAF Technician Barry Morgan Neal ...

Not much is known about Mr Neal, apart from the fact that he was a Technician in the Royal Air Force between 1962 and 1971."
RIP. LFH
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I am sure the local SSAFA and the RAFBF would be able to help and confirm military service.
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Hi--its a long shot but a phone call to RAF Innsworth ( PMC) might generate some information---they willl have records for him---and just might help....!
There is also a retired Vicar in Worcestershire who is Ex RAF Engineering Officer who might be prepared to assist in ant way he can-PM me if you want either his contact details or Innsworth
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coincidence ?

No relation I suppose, just a coincidence ?

From Where Are They Now ? last week.
Does anyone know the whereabouts of 1211832 Flight Sergeant Patrick Richard Murray Neal, later 172243 Pilot Officer Neal DFC?
http://www.pprune.org/where-they-now...-neal-dfc.html
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RAF Records Office Location

Hi--its a long shot but a phone call to RAF Innsworth ( PMC) might generate some information---they willl have records for him---and just might help....!
I think you mean RAF Records at Cranwell

RAF Innsworth / RAF PMC closed some 4 or 5 years ago
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One I found with the same name appears to be still alive, same period as this chap too, and an apprentice

Named Barry


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