Sonas, This is a website forum for Professional pilots to discuss whatever issues they see fit. No-one wants to upset relatives but we do a serious job of work and some, not all, of this forum is provided by pilots and crew who never want this kind of accident to happen again. Sure the official reports and investigations run their course but that should not inhibit us from talking about the issues and provoking each others thoughts with one aim in mind. To help us not to make the same mistakes as others, no mater if they are perceived or not.
You have you opinion and it is right and proper you should air it freely.
Gods forbid If I am ever a subject of one of these threads feel free to tear my performance apart. If it helps someone else then maybe some good comes of it!