I've stopped reading most of the posts as it got slightly off task, however....
Did you land at this airfield? Why not pop and see the FISO and talk it over? That way it's problem resolved (or at least should be!) and you can get on with your flying without worrying about it.
Every now and again you'll come across someone a bit ar£ey on the radio, but it happens. Just learn from the unfortunate experience and move on.
I wish you all a happy 2013
