Ex 'Griffo' I'm happy for you that it didn't turn to poo with yr family. So many older pilots have had at least one failed marriage, it's a mugs game that's for sure!:-(
'Griffo' I think you'll find that J-56 isn't the actual one seeking answers for himself, ( well that's the way it reads to me anyway) it's his mates that he's asking on their behalf but that could be a ploy so as to not attract direct attention to himself, you know how ruthless some Prunnies are in here
Wmk2