Things chainged at the RAFA club? Sadly thats not my impression. If your not of a certain (War time and those that missed out) age, you're not made to feel very welcome at all, whatever your sexual orientation!
They appear to offer nothing to encourage the many generations which have passed through the RAF since they did so to join, hence the ever dwindaling numbers enrolled and the increase in branch closures. No one to blame but them selves.