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| ... not knowing all the facts... |
That's what you get when you don't TELL people the facts, mate. You think everyone here is a mind-reader? You're happy enough to let others (
Sallyann1234,
ArthurR) make the assumption that the money she spent was given to her by you ... I chose a different line of thought. So don't whine about any of the assumptions that have been made because that wouldn't have happened if you had bothered to give us some actual information to go on. Or ... sorry, did you want everyone to pat you on the back and say "poor thing" without asking any questions and expressing opinions.
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| All groceries, catfood, anyhting the house needs are bought my myself, so if this is called being a miserable git who doesnt pay for his fair share then so be it. |
Yet by your own admission, this happens only in the last week or so of every month. (
... by week 2/3 maximum, she completely runs out of money, leaving me to pay for everything again ...) Something doesn't add up here.
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| ... leaving me to pay for everything again, including getting to and from work ... |
She normally pays your bus/train fares or fuel or whatever and you then have to pay that yourself in the last week or so?? Or are you saying that
you pay for
her travelling expenses? That really isn't very clear.
And I didn't say you were a miserable git, I said that IF what I suggested was the case, THEN you were a miserable git. Obviously it was not ... which means that you're not. (Re-read the last line of my first post.)