Ah the "my crew" argument...... I don't see the problem either. I'm sure Willie refers to us as "his" employees ( amongst other things
). I too, wonder why it upsets some people.....(mind you I hate being called "Flight Deck")
As for the PA thanking the crew - I don't do it, don't like it, and yes it makes me cringe when I'm sat in the Cabin..but I
always say thank you on the crew bus.